Need your Sober Advice Elders bila Bias

Jobi4

New Lister
If there's a nanny for her, why can't the kid stay with you? All children deserve a parents love, care and attention.
 

Berlin

Senior Lister
1. You're not that busy so cut the sh! t
2. Why in God's name would you feel the need to let on that you are single on a post that ought to shed light on your scarce paternal instincts.
I think you should display a touch more respect for family.
 

Shaz on

Lister
There is this lady an Ex Girlfriend that we used to date and later had a Kid, A daughter to be specific she is 3 years now, unfortunately we broke up 2 years ago and she had been raising the Kid single handedly until until a month ago after a series of negotiations that she decided to Give me the Kid, The rules of engagement was that she would be spending some time with her at least once a month.
She wholeheartedly agreed and now i have the Kid, she stays with my Paros, luckily there is a nanny who agreed to take care of her including my paros agreed, am soo busy especially with this pandemic. The kid is coping on well and she actually has enough company especially now that kids are at home, i try my best to be with her in my free time. i must say she is comfortable.
My issue is now the Mother,She is Jobless lives at a aunts place she is actually not comfortable, her life is just a mess.A victim of circumstance but one thing i have never under estimated her potential, a schemer. According to my observation probably she is waiting for Corona Pandemic to end get a job and come back for the Kid.
Are there any legal options i can take prior so that in any eventuality she comes back i can defend myself with, something calculated that she may not be involved with right now, She does not need to be served right away, i can play along from a distance.
Currently am not in any serious relationship, just working on myself first, i may get into dating maybe in 2024. AM OUT.
Mnaeza rudia by any chance for the best of the kid
 
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