Fighting in Relationships

Dibbz

Dibbz

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Kasaman said:
I picked a stupid fight with my dear wife, several days a go. I have regretted, it's damn expensive ! Men you can't win a fight with your wife, just remember that !
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Women dont argue/ fight with logic ama intelligence. They argue and fight emotionally and psychologically.

Arsenal yao ni, 'Silent treatment', ' Withdrawal of Affection', 'Smear Campaign', 'Belittling/ Devaluation', (which ni madharau ndogo ndogo) and 'Triangulation'.

Use the same tactics to beat them at their game; either covertly or overtly. Wimins employ said tactics covertly in times of peace; and overtly in times of war.

Wanaume, sisi boundary yetu ni "Smear Campaign" ndio hatufanyangi, na hatufai anyway. The rest are doable, very.

Going forward, block bibi na inlaws kwa primary number indefinitely, mpaka khupipi akutafute privately. Trust me, no matter the posturing, she will reach out. YOU WILL HAVE THE UPPER HAND.
 
Purple Lord

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replica said:
Negative, men were created to lead the house, if the women tries to ascert authority on her husband, it will always end up in war, mimi nitazalisha na nijiingize Siberia!!
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We were? I genuinely believe there's more to life than gender wars, should the wife lack respect for me...so what? I have a job to do
 
Stories from a sad stranger

Stories from a sad stranger

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shocks said:
Hata ndio najiuliza, normal fights wazazi wanaingilia wapi, this jamaa blundered big time na sasa he is reducing it to "a fight"
Although I know of a relative whose marriage is run from the in-laws bedroom, he calls it consulting wazazi wa bibi
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Anytime something petty happens and the spouse takes it upon themselves to involve such third-parties especially 'em fkn in laws, the sure ain't mature for marriage.

It's time that institution went into ashes.
 
Purple Lord

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Stories from a sad stranger said:
Anytime something petty happens and the spouse takes it upon themselves to involve such third-parties especially 'em fkn in laws, the sure ain't mature for marriage.

It's time that institution went into ashes.
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This is a safe space stranger, kindly provide an example.
But you are right, marriage can he used to how beat you into submission.
 
Dibbz

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Some women are good wives, cleaning, cooking and parenting; but are terrible partners. Argumentative, paranoid, sabotaging, pulling in different directions and non-submissive.

Rather a good partner you can build with, than a wife who competes with you for marital power.
 
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