wakimani
Elder Lister
There is one manipulation tactic women use on men, it’s called Mirroring. 90% of men fall for it and never realize it.
Only OGs catch it early. Mirroring is when she:
Becomes the exact woman you want her to be. She listens to everything you say you want in a woman and slowly becomes that woman in front of your eyes. Your favorite food becomes her favorite food. Your interests become her interests. Your values become her values.
And the scary part is she does it so naturally you will never notice. You start thinking “this woman is perfect for me, we have so much in common.” You do not have anything in common. She studied you and built a character around what you told her you wanted.
She is not doing this because she loves you. She is doing it because mirroring is the fastest way to make a man emotionally attached. Once you are attached she stops performing. The interests disappear. The effort disappears. The woman you fell for disappears. And you are left confused wondering what changed.
The way to catch mirroring early is simple. Say you like something you do not actually like. If she suddenly loves it too you have your answer. A woman who is real will have her own opinions even when they clash with yours. A woman who is mirroring will agree with everything because she is not showing you who she is. She is showing you who you want her to be.
Only OGs catch it early. Mirroring is when she:
Becomes the exact woman you want her to be. She listens to everything you say you want in a woman and slowly becomes that woman in front of your eyes. Your favorite food becomes her favorite food. Your interests become her interests. Your values become her values.
And the scary part is she does it so naturally you will never notice. You start thinking “this woman is perfect for me, we have so much in common.” You do not have anything in common. She studied you and built a character around what you told her you wanted.
She is not doing this because she loves you. She is doing it because mirroring is the fastest way to make a man emotionally attached. Once you are attached she stops performing. The interests disappear. The effort disappears. The woman you fell for disappears. And you are left confused wondering what changed.
The way to catch mirroring early is simple. Say you like something you do not actually like. If she suddenly loves it too you have your answer. A woman who is real will have her own opinions even when they clash with yours. A woman who is mirroring will agree with everything because she is not showing you who she is. She is showing you who you want her to be.