validational versus transactional sex

forest monkey

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FRIDAY 11/22/2019
VALIDATIONAL VERSUS TRANSACTIONAL SEX
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Validational sex- This is a type of sex that a woman gives a man whom she perceives as alpha and has a natural desire for, its raw natural pure attraction example the guy he met in rugby sevens when she was tipsy and he was hot for and one thing led to another.

-It's rare, only about 20% of men will experience this type of sex in their lifetime. The point of this type of sex to a woman is to try and qualify herself to a high-value mate. Is she fucking you before a relationship has begun? congratulations that's validational sex. Most alpha red-pilled guys try and target this type of sex, it needs solid game, and high status(natural or fake)

BEWARE: some women may use validational sex to try and get you to be open to transactional sex this are golddiggers, woman trying to trap you into marriage e.t.c

Transactional sex- This type of sex although oblivious to many beta men occurs when a woman is getting benefit from the sex. It's not natural, it's negotiable, there is a lack of passion from the woman. It can take on many forms the most obvious being prostitution, sponsors(aka sugar daddy), marriage or it can be in covert form example: a lecturer getting sex in exchange for marks, a woman giving out sex in fear of being raped(exchange is security)e.t.c

-80% of men only know this type of sex and consider it normal.

-if you are in a relationship and you didn't get sex before it, you are having transactional sex if a woman made you wait for sex or by her actions made you wait for sex then you are ina transactional relationship.

ASK TRP.
QUESTION; I am having transactional sex with my wife/GF how can I change it to validational sex
ANSWER: Learn game, work on yourself, hit the gym, use dread validational sex is for high-value males only.

QUESTION: How does one know he is having validational sex
ANSWER: When she wants to tear off your clothes 5 min after knowing her.

QUESTION: Its just sex who cares if it's validational or transactional?
ANSWERS: Redpillers do, validational sex is not just sex it's more than that, it's being wanted for nothing more than pure natural attraction. You can't explain it until you have had your shirt torn apart as soon as you stepped in the front door she wants it now, she wants it bad and she wants it from you!

as posted on telegram keredpill
 
This 20% doesn't subscribe to this red pill movement
In the group pull up a post I wrote called "the life cycle"
but here is the summary:
the 20%
5-8% natural born alphas
7% lucky alphas (CEOS, LOTTERY WINNERS, celebrities)
5% Blood and sweat red-pillers who have spent hours improving themselves
 
if you are in a relationship and you didn't get sex before it, you are having transactional sex if a woman made you wait for sex
What if she made you wait simply for religious reasons, restraining herself as well? the point i'm trying to make is that the viewpoint you bring only paints women in a bad light.
 
What if she made you wait simply for religious reasons, restraining herself as well? the point i'm trying to make is that the viewpoint you bring only paints women in a bad light.
Good girls are only bad girls who are not caught.
All women have the same primal mental firmware the software might be different but the evolutionary firmware is the same.

Any woman who makes you wait for sex or buy her actions indicates that she's making you wait for sex the sex isn't worth the wait.

For the right alpha at the right time, all those religious reasons will be dropped, that's unless the consequences are not worth it. example in Arabic nations
 
Weee chukua slices zako na usonge mbele kama injili ya yohana. Young men waste too much time and valuable energy analyzing shit, only to get to 45 and realize that none of it really meant nothing!! Seriously at 50 do u think it will really matter whether sex in your 20s was validational or transactional? FOCUS ON SHIT THAT MATTERS BRO!

PS: Women will always be there
 
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