This is Guka - 14-Year Old Gal; Are My Sexuality Instincts Wrong? PICTURE ATTACHED!!!!

My concern is about THE SEXUALITY DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONES of the gal,
See, your concern is that her development may not follow the "normal" route.
My argument is that she doesn't have to follow the "normal" route since she's a different individual with different preferences.
Isn't that intelligent?
 
See, your concern is that her development may not follow the "normal" route.
My argument is that she doesn't have to follow the "normal" route since she's a different individual with different preferences.
Isn't that intelligent?
Wacha kuwa mkali bae. Sasa unataka tuanze kulea watoto wanapenda madogi instead of the opposite sex?

Kwani hiyo Kingdom Hall yenu mnavuta bhangi?
 
Mimi huzichukia zaidi. I can boil one if it ever strayed into my house...........
The fact that you hate them doesn't mean everyone else must hate them.
And your hatred for them makes you view people (especially young girls with perky breasts) who love them as behaving inappropriately.
 
The fact that you hate them doesn't mean everyone else must hate them.
And your hatred for them makes you view people (especially young girls with perky breasts) who love them as behaving inappropriately.
May be. Hiyo nakubali. But I still maintain that the gal shows abnormal attachment to her pet. I know you won't believe me but I have never even noticed whether she has breasts or not because the darn animal is always pressed against her chest. And she's a kid any way..............
 
May be. Hiyo nakubali. But I still maintain that the gal shows abnormal attachment to her pet. I know you won't believe me but I have never even noticed whether she has breasts or not because the darn animal is always pressed against her chest. And she's a kid any way..............
Now this is your definition of a normal girl, right?
 
This gal is my neiba's dauta. I guess she's about 14 or 15.

She has one of these funny white little dogs that always remind me of a snack - mimi huona kama naweza boil one for soup coz they remind me of rabbits. I hate them - mbwa ni German shepherd ama rottweiler. Any way, back to the gal.

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Well, the gal has the funny habit of carrying her pet close to her chest every where she goes. You meet her coming from the shops, the dog is next to her little breasts. She's seated ouside their house, ditto. She's taking a walk, you guessed it.

Now, may be I am an old-fashioned dirty old grandpa, but I thought God gave dogs four legs to walk around? Why does she have to carry the damn thing everywhere she goes?

But even of more concern to me is what the crazy attachment the gal has to her pet will have on her developing sexuality. Anybody who's done basic psychology knows the early years (0-5) when the psyche is developing and the teen years (12-18) are critical to the emergence of normal sexuality.

Kids who routinely see their mother being fucked by different men, for example, often turn to be sexual predators in adulthood (what does that say of the 'tumesalimiana' battalion?). Teens

At 14, the gal in question is obviously going through adolescence with highs and lows of oestrogen and other reproductive hormones, funny sexual desires and emotions etc. Is it right to allow the gal, as her parents have, to have such an intimate relationship with an animal? A pet is OK, but surely not a pet that is cuddled like a baby? (in psychology there's something called transference). Won't this relationship have some untoward impact on her emerging sexuality in future?

I have been tempted to ask her mother to moderate the gal's interaction with the animal, but then she - a pasta's wife no less - once in December 2017 propositioned me when her husband was away and I turned her down. She's just ugly, but she never forgave me . So, I don't want to start something that she can use to hit back at me.

Am I misreading the situation? Am I being melodramatic? Or am I just being a sensible concerned Guka?

Stop beating around the bush Guka, Be straight forward you have been admiring the little subconsciously the way you describe her Breasts and future sexual orientation, Pedo detected come clean man all those narratives just to psychoanalyse alittle girls pet.

PS: Forgive my digism
 
The mother hates you. But you can use other means to pass on the message to her...maybe through the mother's church women?
Hata kama uko na mucene kidogo,I believe there must have been more that you have seen to cause you to get worried about the little girl.
If you really care,find a way of communicating your concerns lakini ukae ukijua,mamake akijua ni wewe ulianzisha hizi story,you just might be accused of paedophilia.
Ni hayo tu.
 
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