Relationships are Messy

[Nameless]

 

[LeoK]

That smart brother just wants OUT.

 

[Mishale]

That smart brother just wants OUT.

either that or he's traumatized.
maybe hid in a pile of clothes while the parents were fighting.
could also be he had an abusive dad/mum/steps and he could only hide in piles of clothes to avoid being hit or molested

 

[Cleopatra]

Psychological issues, that guys must have been tortured mentally when he was a kid.

 

[Afro]

I too, think there is something psychological about the nest. It offers a sense of comfort I relation to a traumatic event when he was a kid.

 

[Saidi Ngichua]

That woman has a lot of patience. Hoq can you date someone for three years without knowing where they live? Mambo ya wazungu ni funny sana.

Like most people have pointed there that guy must have psychological issues.

 

[Mishale]

Psychological issues, that guys must have been tortured mentally when he was a kid.

I too, think there is something psychological about the nest. It offers a sense of comfort I relation to a traumatic event when he was a kid.

if the guy refuses counselling, could sleeping with him in the pile help and then try to ease him off or he's too far gone since he doesn't even want to wash the clothes in the pile?

 

[Cleopatra]

if the guy refuses counselling, could sleeping with him in the pile help and then try to ease him off or he's too far gone since he doesn't even want to wash the clothes in the pile?

The guy is 25 years estimate he moved out from his mama's house at 20, 5 years sleeping in a nest thats so long maybe ata he believes he is a bird.

 

[ShabbaRanks]

How do you date a guy for 3 years and you've never been to his place before?

 

[Mishale]

The guy is 25 years estimate he moved out from his mama's house at 20, 5 years sleeping in a nest thats so long maybe ata he believes he is a bird.

so the girl might one day come home to find he laid an egg or injured caus he tried to fly.

 

[Nattydread]

either that or he's traumatized.
maybe hid in a pile of clothes while the parents were fighting.
could also be he had an abusive dad/mum/steps and he could only hide in piles of clothes to avoid being hit or molested

You're overthinking and it is just what it is: a dirty, unwashed, lazy guy, who has met a really bat-headed girl.

 

[Mishale]

You're overthinking and it is just what it is: a dirty, unwashed, lazy guy, who has met a really bat-headed girl.

lets hope soo.
but people have different ways of coping with trauma or abuse.

 

[Aviator]

How do you date a guy for 3 years and you've never been to his place before?

Meaning the guy has never taken slices in the 3 years?

 

[Mr X]

I thought I had some really weird stuffs in my house but this is just too much fucked up.....leave alone the nest like dating a guy for 3 years without visiting his house..It makes me wonder where the two used to spend their time from. Hoteli na lojo ama?

 

[Mr X]

Psychological issues, that guys must have been tortured mentally when he was a kid.

There is nothing like psychological problems here this is what I call evolved laziness hata kama ni kusota si mtu hubuy mattress ya 1000 basi na kulala chini.....its very understandable than a nest

 

[Kabuda]

Meaning the guy has never taken slices in the 3 years?

I reckon he's had a few birds in his nest but won't admit it.
His parents probably pushed him off the nest at 22 after he failed to voluntarily fly off the nest.
You know what they say about birds of a feather?....
I hope he meets a bird that actually wants to 'Flock' with him....

 

[QuadroK4000]

The guy is 25 years estimate he moved out from his mama's house at 20, 5 years sleeping in a nest thats so long maybe ata he believes he is a bird.

Hehehe.

 

[QuadroK4000]

How do you date a guy for 3 years and you've never been to his place before?

Stories of giants.

 

[It's Me Scumbag]

Freud would have been proud of y'all...

 

[TYCOON_001]

She should accept the Boy with the Nest whole heartedly