The old days life was fair coz a girl could preserve virginity for his future husband and the man in return could be asked for 10 cows and goats but the funny bit of it currently you get a girl at her sweet sixteen she's is having the 26th boyfriend na when she reaches her marriage you find the husband is the fortieth boyfriend and you get him being asked for a ransom doury of 2m then you get amazed if he's really marrying the girl or the "experience" in her