2021 in Review: Hits, Misses & Lessons

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2021 has, undoubtedly, been among the most difficult year for most of us. It is like the gods fell asleep, and the year has gone mad. Everything that could go wrong went wrong. Everyone here has lost a loved one to the pandemic, including the brave. Biz and jobs have been affected one way or another. Even our evangelical pastors who assured us that it was the year of God's favour must be doubting their prophesy. It has taken inflexible will (like Okwonkwo's) to survive the year.
As we near to the close, let us use this thread to recount the good, the bad and the ugly that happened during the year. And most importantest, the lessons we learnt.

I go first.

The Good: The pandemic, since last year,led to closure of biz. I had a lot of free time. No beer places open. I was able to focus on a project I have postponed for the past three years. Finally, I was able to complete it.

The bad: I lost very close people this year. Incidentally, none from covid. A brother in law to electrocution, a bro to Cancer, a cousin to police brutality and my mentor, Mrs. Jyoti Mukherjee to heart issues. May they RIP. A bunch of others not so close died from covid related issues.

The Ugly: I fell out with a very close family member a few weeks ago. Whoever said kikulacho kinguoni mwako was almost nailing it. I don't know how to reconcile after betrayed trust. Still trying to figure out.

The Lessons: Saving is the most stupid way of trying to make your life better. The sacrifices needed for substantial savings really water down the quality of life. Not worth it. Instead, focus on increasing your income. An increase of 10k in disposable income guarantees you a better life than a saving of 10k.
 
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2021 has, undoubtedly, been among the most difficult year for most of us. It is like the gods fell asleep, and the year has gone mad. Everything that could go wrong went wrong. Everyone here has lost a loved one to the pandemic, including the brave. Biz and jobs have been affected one way or another. Even our evangelical pastors who assured us that it was the year of God's favour must be doubting their prophesy. It has taken inflexible will (like Okwonkwo's) to survive the year.
As we near to the close, let us use this thread to recount the good, the bad and the ugly that happened during the year. And most importantest, the lessons we learnt.

I go first.

The Good: The pandemic, since last year,led to closure of biz. I had a lot of free time. No beer places open. I was able to focus on a project I have postponed for the past three years. Finally, I was able to complete it.

The bad: I lost very close people this year. Incidentally, none from covid. A brother in law to electrocution, a bro to Cancer, a cousin to police brutality and my mentor, Mrs. Jyoti Mukherjee to heart issues. May they RIP. A bunch of others not so close died from covid related issues.

The Ugly: I fell out with a very close family member a few weeks ago. Whoever said kikulacho kinguoni mwako was almost nailing it. I don't know how to reconcile after betrayed trust. Still trying to figure out.

The Lessons: Saving is the most stupid way of trying to make your life better. The sacrifices needed for substantial savings really water down the quality of life. Not worth it. Instead, focus on increasing your income. An increase of 10k in disposable income guarantees you a better life than a saving of 10k.
Waah, a very insightful and reflective thread. It's been a really crazy year.

What I have learned is that life is for the living, poor or rich. You always do what you can, not what people think you should. Never, ever try to meet their expectations.

Family is very very important. There are always assos, but on the whole it is your last resort. Value it.

Always be on the lookout for the 'shemale' who wants to ferk you up. People are not always good. Don't trust everyone.

Celebrate your little wins. Plant a tree and watch it grow. Don't kill stuff unless you have too. Live and let live.

Ferk like a rabbit. Anywhere. Everywhere. Any time. Anything. Walk away like a boss and let them talk, coz half of them will be wishing they had your guts.
 
Waah, a very insightful and reflective thread. It's been a really crazy year.

What I have learned is that life is for the living, poor or rich. You always do what you can, not what people think you should. Never, ever try to meet their expectations.

Family is very very important. There are always assos, but on the whole it is your last resort. Value it.

Always be on the lookout for the 'shemale' who wants to ferk you up. People are not always good. Don't trust everyone.

Celebrate your little wins. Plant a tree and watch it grow. Don't kill stuff unless you have too. Live and let live.

Ferk like a rabbit. Anywhere. Everywhere. Any time. Anything. Walk away like a boss and let them talk, coz half of them will be wishing they had your guts.
Shemales?
 
Let me see...

The Good.
I still breathe. I finally had a giant epididymal cyst removed. That thing had been bothering me for months.

The OK.
I got my first grey strands.

The Bad.
At the start of the year I spent about three weeks in a hospital bed for unknown ailments only to go back a month later for a further two weeks with a case of typhoid and malaria. First ever typhoid infection and it almost took me out.

The Ugly.
It's been a chill year for me. Nothing ugly.

The Weird.
I got electrocuted and dislocated one shoulder and couldn't move both hands for weeks without pain.

The lessons
I learnt nothing. I blinked and it was Christmas. Be chill, be nice...r, I guess. Maybe. idk.


Cheers to another year and a reminder of how short human life is.
 
Let me see...

The Good.
I still breathe. I finally had a giant epididymal cyst removed. That thing had been bothering me for months.

The OK.
I got my first grey strands.

The Bad.
At the start of the year I spent about three weeks in a hospital bed for unknown ailments only to go back a month later for a further two weeks with a case of typhoid and malaria. First ever typhoid infection and it almost took me out.

The Ugly.
It's been a chill year for me. Nothing ugly.

The Weird.
I got electrocuted and dislocated one shoulder and couldn't move both hands for weeks without pain.

The lessons
I learnt nothing. I blinked and it was Christmas. Be chill, be nice...r, I guess. Maybe. idk.


Cheers to another year and a reminder of how short human life is.
Waah, pole. I see the year screwed us en masse. There's consolation in numbers.
 
The Good..................Learnt a lot of lessons from Corona menace, and came up with plans which I have started actualising, guaranteed to make @Cortedivoire feature me in the billionaire of the day in the near future
The bad.................Lost very many and some close people. I think in 2021 I attended more funerals than I have cumulatively attended in the past 10 years.
I also lost some major business courtesy of rona and death.
The funny.....Hide and seek with a 3 year old is scandalous!
 
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Let me try:

The Good: Finally finished a kaproject after working on it, on and off, for several years. Im grateful for the direction ya family kwa hard work and discipline.

The OK. Recovered from two bouts of Rona.

The bad: this has been a funeral year. I lost friends, relatives, na majirani wengi

Lessons: start with yourself and demand only the best; it becomes easier to demand the same from others. Be grateful; you can always find something to be thankful for. Learn to prioritize and optimize especially when working on projects. Never work with quacks,
 
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