Hey listers...as you all already know hii handle nimesanya kutoka ile kijiji and rightfully so coz its kidinyi who made me discover and later join the forum after his lengendary stories got posted on mpasho.
Now to my dilemma,kuna this singo mum of 21years to a 1 yr old baby boy nimekuwa romantically involved for a while now. Things have escaleted fast and now we have been planning on moving in together with her although she is still finishing college this year which her parents are currently paying for. My problem is that I am a bit skeptical of wifing her mainly because of plenty of negative threads I have read kwa kijiji about single moms. She has all the traits I look for in a woman and I am convinced that the is the one although I am very convinced that her child will always affect our relationship so I asked her to leave him with her parents which she politely declined saying and I quote " Saa you mean niacha mtoi na my mum....hio nayo nikupee my mum stress and sitaki" and rightfully so and that she is moving in with him. I perfectly know that a boy is designed to resist a man who is not his biological father and thats what scares me the most...nifanye nn listers?
NB: Shida ya baby daddy is non existed because the girl was raped and her mom forbade her from doing an abortion.
Now to my dilemma,kuna this singo mum of 21years to a 1 yr old baby boy nimekuwa romantically involved for a while now. Things have escaleted fast and now we have been planning on moving in together with her although she is still finishing college this year which her parents are currently paying for. My problem is that I am a bit skeptical of wifing her mainly because of plenty of negative threads I have read kwa kijiji about single moms. She has all the traits I look for in a woman and I am convinced that the is the one although I am very convinced that her child will always affect our relationship so I asked her to leave him with her parents which she politely declined saying and I quote " Saa you mean niacha mtoi na my mum....hio nayo nikupee my mum stress and sitaki" and rightfully so and that she is moving in with him. I perfectly know that a boy is designed to resist a man who is not his biological father and thats what scares me the most...nifanye nn listers?
NB: Shida ya baby daddy is non existed because the girl was raped and her mom forbade her from doing an abortion.