Lastkingz
New Lister
HOW NO SEX *BEFORE MARRIAGE DESTROYED MY* MARRIAGE
*EPISODE 3*
Martin was a good boy and I *loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together* . When we *started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had s*x before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no.
I don’t know if he* believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.
Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have s*x became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having s*x? In my mind, I wanted our first s*x to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first s*x and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going.
Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But s*x had a way of creeping into our minds.
I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream.
What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.
Days to the traditional wedding was tough.
We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on.
Tbc
*EPISODE 3*
Martin was a good boy and I *loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together* . When we *started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had s*x before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no.
I don’t know if he* believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.
Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have s*x became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having s*x? In my mind, I wanted our first s*x to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first s*x and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going.
Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But s*x had a way of creeping into our minds.
I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream.
What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.
Days to the traditional wedding was tough.
We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on.
Tbc
