FIRST POST....HERE WE GO

forest monkey

New Lister
How much sex should you have with your girlfriend or marriage? what will be considered a good frequency?

my answer: 2 to 3 times a week after initial honeymoon period(3 months).

if you are getting less than this frequency someone else is getting it or the married guys you have lost frame.

any decrease in frequency in sex means that the sex is is transnational(money) not validational (natural desire).

MY SOLUTIONS.
1) Don't move in with your girlfriend if you are not intending to marry her within 6months. sex decreases after cohabitating
2) Instill a sense of dread in her, that is show her that you are of a higher value and women want you too, a sense of competition will raise in her
an alpha that has been tamed is no longer an alpha. You can hit the gym too
3) Fake up a divorce/ breakup. you enter into a relationship /marriage for continuous sex. Shell come back fucking you.
 

Clemens

Elder Lister
3 times a night for the last 6 months (I ain't married to her and with exception to her 5 unhealthy days).
 

forest monkey

New Lister
major assumption here my fren!
just from observations 98% of the alphas i know get at least 2+ per week unless she has traveled(and we all know alphas don't do long distance things). also at that rate it means that the woman is trying hard to impress you(which means she still sees you as alpha).
3 times a night for the last 6 months (I ain't married to her and with exception to her 5 unhealthy days).
are you cohabitating with her(if you are please stop), are you spinning plates(seeing other women honestly) or you are in a commitment.(if you are under 35 u need to spin plates not being in a commitment)

i see my girlfriend twice or thrice a week it keeps the sexual tension high, i also spin several plates( yeah she knows, am honest) which always keeps the competition tight and shes always on her best behavior
 

Clemens

Elder Lister
just from observations 98% of the alphas i know get at least 2+ per week unless she has traveled(and we all know alphas don't do long distance things). also at that rate it means that the woman is trying hard to impress you(which means she still sees you as alpha).

are you cohabitating with her(if you are please stop), are you spinning plates(seeing other women honestly) or you are in a commitment.(if you are under 35 u need to spin plates not being in a commitment)

i see my girlfriend twice or thrice a week it keeps the sexual tension high, i also spin several plates( yeah she knows, am honest) which always keeps the competition tight and shes always on her best behavior
I am not cohabiting with her, spinning other plates is a must. She got an appetite for it, why should I sent her something she loves.
 
There is a colleague of mine whom we used to make fun of. He had a wife and used to tell us he cannot skip lunch lest he fails to perform in the evening. Guys used to laugh and tell him not make his wife get used to daily sex because a time will come when they might have to be away from from each other. Na hapo ndio atateleza.
 
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