I read you bro !
For him to have hit fourth floor, he has very poor relationship with relatives, most probably he is a micer, ama never attended family gatherings, otherwise close women relas will keep you on toes regarding your biological clock.
In my time my cucu ( may her soul rest in peace) akisikia niko kwa boma ,she would 'shout don't come to greet meif you are alone ' !
Wait until we visited with my Deputy ,it was total joy in the whole uchagoo !
Relas will even tell you off ukiwaletea viruka njia