AoB 09112022

It's possible to impeach a delegate from the opposing side during negotiations. You can always object before the negotiations start. That ceremony is supposed to bring the two families closer. The problem is that some people are greedy and stupid. Nobody should mess up with a son in law who demonstrates such a level of commitment!
Totally agree !
The future of my children was important
What I can't do is mess with their blessings ! Kama babu yao hakutoa ruracio siedi toa and I can't move even a step beyond were he reached !
 
It's possible to impeach a delegate from the opposing side during negotiations. You can always object before the negotiations start. That ceremony is supposed to bring the two families closer. The problem is that some people are greedy and stupid. Nobody should mess up with a son in law who demonstrates such a level of commitment!
You are on point here @bigDog.
The said Elder should have been asked to recuse themselves due to potential conflict of interest and, importantly, lack of impartiality.
 
You are supposed to be "consulted" 😁. You should also be very familiar with the protocols so that you can raise objections when you notice a breach.
Correct, you can postpone the ritual and go for consultation from your clan ! Fix another date , very wise way of protesting
 
20221109_170534.jpg
 
He should immediately declare invested interest in that case ! Why defend thieves ?

During my ruracio my uncle who is an official in kiama kiama organized everything on behalf of my family. He told me he has to be accompanied by a team of elders, I incurred all the expenses only for one of seniors elder to turn tables during the negotiations! Ati 'sasa mjue hawa ni my clan , I'm crossing over and to their side and you are now 'facing me ' . You know what the idiot know our pockets in and out ! Alitufukuza nje mara tatu !
To cut the story short he was summoned by the council of elders and he is been pleading with me to drop the charges .

Never show off in this life ! Ati wewe diye unajua mambo ,sit listen , watch unless somebody life is in danger and you are a doctor ! Ùtathìaga aùgaga nyina noweuwe kùruga !
Pardon my ignorance, of what use are strangers in a dowry negotiation?
 
Back
Top