Thieving Nephew

Kender9

Kender9

Elder Lister
Years ago, my late bro was deported from the US and for a couple of years drunk himself silly before accepting his fate and turned his life around. He then married Mutheu's sister when the score was 0-1. But a few years later his life was brutally cut short by robbers who had attacked them at their home leaving behind the widow, the adopted son and two other children.
We as the extended family did a major fundraising where we set-up an education fund for the family and also proceeded to build a mansion for them. The boy went to campus where he did economics and CPA (as he used to tell us) and cleared last year, though he didn't graduate cos he never sat for some papers, as we came to learn thro a friend of his.
His campus journey was tainted with minor scams where he used to solicit for money from us, his maternal relatives, church members and even distant relatives.
Apparently he has a gambling addition whereby his pocket money + helb loans couldn't last even a week.
After clearing, we decided to use him to be assisting my then bedridden dad and we arranged than he would get a weekly token for motivation and his other needs. This never stopped his scams of soliciting for money from people.
The scumbag (not related to any scumbag you know) has now graduated to stealing from my dad as he got to know his mpesa pin and bank details.
He first fulizad 3500/- then the straw that broke the camel's back is last weekend but 1, he ejected mzee's saf simcard, pretended that it might have dropped as he was swapping phones for mzae, then he lied that he was going out for kesha and by monday when we replaced the simcard, we realised that he had withdrawn 60k, fuluzad 3500/- and even tried to download apps to take loans from.
Kuulizwa by my parents he casually explained that he had gambled away all the money. Now me n my siblings hakuna mtu amwongelesha, he hasn't even tried to apologize and to add insult to injury, he isn't helping at all at home. The other day a physiotherapist knocked at the gate for more than 10 minutes and the idiot was arrogantly doing laundry, ilibidi my old folks watoke wakafungue gate.
Last weekend I travelled there and giving him some C.I.A grade torture, only used at Guantanamo bay but he was saved by mashetani ya kwao Kitui akakua ametoka.
Huyu naapa lazima aende Inda and or Kamiti, wadau nisaidie na mawazo.
 
Kender9 said:
Years ago, my late bro was deported from the US and for a couple of years drunk himself silly before accepting his fate and turned his life around. He then married Mutheu's sister when the score was 0-1. But a few years later his life was brutally cut short by robbers who had attacked them at their home leaving behind the widow, the adopted son and two other children.
We as the extended family did a major fundraising where we set-up an education fund for the family and also proceeded to build a mansion for them. The boy went to campus where he did economics and CPA (as he used to tell us) and cleared last year, though he didn't graduate cos he never sat for some papers, as we came to learn thro a friend of his.
His campus journey was tainted with minor scams where he used to solicit for money from us, his maternal relatives, church members and even distant relatives.
Apparently he has a gambling addition whereby his pocket money + helb loans couldn't last even a week.
After clearing, we decided to use him to be assisting my then bedridden dad and we arranged than he would get a weekly token for motivation and his other needs. This never stopped his scams of soliciting for money from people.
The scumbag (not related to any scumbag you know) has now graduated to stealing from my dad as he got to know his mpesa pin and bank details.
He first fulizad 3500/- then the straw that broke the camel's back is last weekend but 1, he ejected mzee's saf simcard, pretended that it might have dropped as he was swapping phones for mzae, then he lied that he was going out for kesha and by monday when we replaced the simcard, we realised that he had withdrawn 60k, fuluzad 3500/- and even tried to download apps to take loans from.
Kuulizwa by my parents he casually explained that he had gambled away all the money. Now me n my siblings hakuna mtu amwongelesha, he hasn't even tried to apologize and to add insult to injury, he isn't helping at all at home. The other day a physiotherapist knocked at the gate for more than 10 minutes and the idiot was arrogantly doing laundry, ilibidi my old folks watoke wakafungue gate.
Last weekend I travelled there and giving him some C.I.A grade torture, only used at Guantanamo bay but he was saved by mashetani ya kwao Kitui akakua ametoka.
Huyu naapa lazima aende Inda and or Kamiti, wadau nisaidie na mawazo.
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That's an adult, and you even don't have any relation with.

The best you can do is throw him out. But be very careful, huyu anaeza organize thugs/thieves to still from u guyz.

Ama auze shamba.
 
I had an almost similar experience, bit this was with a blood relative. So issue of throwing him out was out of question.

(Un)Fortunately, such fellows are short-lived. They die sooner or later, in more anguish than that Mzee they steal from.
My advice: just secure anything the fellow may steal. Mtishie that you will eject him from the compound. Involve the chief/nyumba kumi. He will slow down kidogo, but still akipata kitu imewekwa mbaya atapita nayo.
Give him a few years and he will be six feet under.
 
Kender9 said:
Years ago, my late bro was deported from the US and for a couple of years drunk himself silly before accepting his fate and turned his life around. He then married Mutheu's sister when the score was 0-1. But a few years later his life was brutally cut short by robbers who had attacked them at their home leaving behind the widow, the adopted son and two other children.
We as the extended family did a major fundraising where we set-up an education fund for the family and also proceeded to build a mansion for them. The boy went to campus where he did economics and CPA (as he used to tell us) and cleared last year, though he didn't graduate cos he never sat for some papers, as we came to learn thro a friend of his.
His campus journey was tainted with minor scams where he used to solicit for money from us, his maternal relatives, church members and even distant relatives.
Apparently he has a gambling addition whereby his pocket money + helb loans couldn't last even a week.
After clearing, we decided to use him to be assisting my then bedridden dad and we arranged than he would get a weekly token for motivation and his other needs. This never stopped his scams of soliciting for money from people.
The scumbag (not related to any scumbag you know) has now graduated to stealing from my dad as he got to know his mpesa pin and bank details.
He first fulizad 3500/- then the straw that broke the camel's back is last weekend but 1, he ejected mzee's saf simcard, pretended that it might have dropped as he was swapping phones for mzae, then he lied that he was going out for kesha and by monday when we replaced the simcard, we realised that he had withdrawn 60k, fuluzad 3500/- and even tried to download apps to take loans from.
Kuulizwa by my parents he casually explained that he had gambled away all the money. Now me n my siblings hakuna mtu amwongelesha, he hasn't even tried to apologize and to add insult to injury, he isn't helping at all at home. The other day a physiotherapist knocked at the gate for more than 10 minutes and the idiot was arrogantly doing laundry, ilibidi my old folks watoke wakafungue gate.
Last weekend I travelled there and giving him some C.I.A grade torture, only used at Guantanamo bay but he was saved by mashetani ya kwao Kitui akakua ametoka.
Huyu naapa lazima aende Inda and or Kamiti, wadau nisaidie na mawazo.
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You would need to get rid of the gambling problem one way or the other before he does something worse. Counseling is one viable option. Government-sponsored containment could be another, but that could also turn him into an even bigger problem. Plus I doubt the larger family would agree to that path. Finally, his situation could have been exacerbated by his academic problems. It might help to include the academic issue in any planned solutions.
 
upepo said:
You would need to get rid of the gambling problem one way or the other before he does something worse. Counseling is one viable option. Government-sponsored containment could be another, but that could also turn him into an even bigger problem. Plus I doubt the larger family would agree to that path. Finally, his situation could have been exacerbated by his academic problems. It might help to include the academic issue in any planned solutions.
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We are not even sure if all the money goes into gambling and worse still he's not into alcohol or women
 
Kender9 said:
That's the million dollar question. Labda hata akwo kwa cult anaitishwa pesa mambo yake ikue sawa.
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Whatever it is,neega hangekuwa kwa hiyo boma...and as you chase him away,threaten him to report the 60K to the cops should his shadow be seen anywhere near the homestead.
And to be on the safe side,like you been told,make sure chifu na msee kiherehere wa nyumba 10 anajua hii maneno.
 
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