Nefertities
Elder Lister
@bigDog , @Aviator & @Nefertities sisi hatuna shida mtu akiwa gay the problem that we have is the constant reminder of that person being gay just as @Mwalimu-G & @Clemens have stated above. Nimeuliza pia, the straight people tuanze kusema kila mahali we are straight. @Aviator watu wamefirana tangu jadi what has changed now ndio tukuwe bombared na ii agenda?
Waite wote so you can all encourage each other juu hamna individuality and another adult's sexuality threatens your "masculinity".
Your fragile masculinity is fragile because YOU'RE fragile. Not because anyone has challenged it.
Learn to look at a situation and know why it evokes such strong emotions in yourself.