Cassey Tash
Lister
We a born, and all of a sudden we are grown-ups. We start looking for jobs that are not available then end up depressed over responsibilities that are ahead of us.
Moving out of your parent's house could be due to many reasons;
Parent's won't open up to you, but their actions will speak louder, some parents might use the siblings to frustrate you so that uchangamke.
Before you are fed up with 'madharaus' and aibu ndogo ndogo, these are the most important things you should know and or have before moving out.
DISCLAIMER: Before you move out of your parent's house, it is advised that you get a job or a stable source of income.
1. The cost of moving
In Kenya, moving from one house to another requires a lot of money. The landlords require tenants to pay a deposit and rent of that month. Some landlords demand two months' rents plus a deposit to occupy their houses.
After identifying a house that you can afford, you need to have basic needs such as a blanket, a basin, cooking materials and where to sleep. Depending on your income, you can start by buying a mattress and a blanket as you plan to buy other stuff. With the 'uchokora' in us, you can start by sleeping on a box as you save up for a mattress, that's what people do.
For ladies, it would be a bit expensive to move since you are all full of details and other nonbasic stuff. Remember you cant kill yourself, always ask your parents for help they can't say no, in fact, they're so proud that you moved.
2. Know your budget
Draft a budget that will help you survive until you receive your next pay, include your daily expenses, food, and other necessities. Plan ahead so that you don't go broke and think of going back to your parent's house. Take note of what you can and cannot afford.
3. Savings
Opening a savings account is as important as having tea in the morning. Before moving into your own house, plan on how you'll set aside a certain amount for your savings, join a Sacco or open an account exclusively for saving. Whether you are employed or have a business, the saving will help you invest your money elsewhere for future use. Remember, the earlier you start saving, the better for you.
4. Your security
Ensure where you're moving into is very secure, the last thing you should expect is starting over after you are robbed on your way home, or your house and items stole. security has become a basic need. Think about it.
5. Build a network
Moving into your own house doesn't mean you'll be alone forever. Find a group of friends who'll make your mind think outside the box. Talking to friends helps you to network and find other sources of income. They might as well pop up to say hi and joke around.
Moving out of your parent's house could be due to many reasons;
- They might be tired of you, they give you the 'utahama lini' look
- You might have overstayed your visit. Your siblings will start disrespecting you, even the house cat
- You have reached the sleepover age, and can't bring your girlfriend or boyfriend to your parent's house
Parent's won't open up to you, but their actions will speak louder, some parents might use the siblings to frustrate you so that uchangamke.
Before you are fed up with 'madharaus' and aibu ndogo ndogo, these are the most important things you should know and or have before moving out.
DISCLAIMER: Before you move out of your parent's house, it is advised that you get a job or a stable source of income.
1. The cost of moving
In Kenya, moving from one house to another requires a lot of money. The landlords require tenants to pay a deposit and rent of that month. Some landlords demand two months' rents plus a deposit to occupy their houses.
After identifying a house that you can afford, you need to have basic needs such as a blanket, a basin, cooking materials and where to sleep. Depending on your income, you can start by buying a mattress and a blanket as you plan to buy other stuff. With the 'uchokora' in us, you can start by sleeping on a box as you save up for a mattress, that's what people do.
For ladies, it would be a bit expensive to move since you are all full of details and other nonbasic stuff. Remember you cant kill yourself, always ask your parents for help they can't say no, in fact, they're so proud that you moved.
2. Know your budget
Draft a budget that will help you survive until you receive your next pay, include your daily expenses, food, and other necessities. Plan ahead so that you don't go broke and think of going back to your parent's house. Take note of what you can and cannot afford.
3. Savings
Opening a savings account is as important as having tea in the morning. Before moving into your own house, plan on how you'll set aside a certain amount for your savings, join a Sacco or open an account exclusively for saving. Whether you are employed or have a business, the saving will help you invest your money elsewhere for future use. Remember, the earlier you start saving, the better for you.
4. Your security
Ensure where you're moving into is very secure, the last thing you should expect is starting over after you are robbed on your way home, or your house and items stole. security has become a basic need. Think about it.
5. Build a network
Moving into your own house doesn't mean you'll be alone forever. Find a group of friends who'll make your mind think outside the box. Talking to friends helps you to network and find other sources of income. They might as well pop up to say hi and joke around.
