Marrying

Kinya said:
In consideration to the rising cases of domestic violence,, should one marry or stay single?
Am just wondering here
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I think staying single is the only way to go.
Na dryspell ikikuhit,, call a galdem
And then send her back to her home.
Making a decision of staying together is a very big mistake
 
Fredmugendi said:
I think staying single is the only way to go.
Na dryspell ikikuhit,, call a galdem
And then send her back to her home.
Making a decision of staying together is a very big mistake
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But,, are you going to stay single forever?
Obvious your mum expects a mjukuu.
And you cannot dare to let her down.
To achieve that, certainly you must marry and stay with your wife under one roof
 
emali said:
you are in the wrong village... 89% of listers have been married for more than 20 years...
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Yeah.
And thats why am asking if it is appropriate for me to marry.
They do have the necessary experience, so,, they can advice me wisely
 
If you're thinking of getting married, it means your mind has already considered it.
Work on yourself and find a good girl who also wants to get married.
Talk and communicate, marriage isn't a temporary thing like milenials have made it.
Marriage is nice, with the right person, respect each other and you'll enjoy marriage.
 
Fredmugendi said:
I think staying single is the only way to go.
Na dryspell ikikuhit,, call a galdem
And then send her back to her home.
Making a decision of staying together is a very big mistake
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You do realise that the ones killed were single too na walikuwa wamesaka galdem wa dryspell one thing led to another and they started living together..is all a trap. unless you know how to seperate emotions and pleasure and you bulit a foundation with the galdem strictly friends with benefits with no emotions itakuwa hard
 
Anglututu said:
If you're thinking of getting married, it means your mind has already considered it.
Work on yourself and find a good girl who also wants to get married.
Talk and communicate, marriage isn't a temporary thing like milenials have made it.
Marriage is nice, with the right person, respect each other and you'll enjoy marriage.
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So,, it all requires one to choose a perfect partner and they may live together as a couple.
If you are lucky to find a perfect partner, then one should marry..
 
Encore said:
You do realise that the ones killed were single too na walikuwa wamesaka galdem wa dryspell one thing led to another and they started living together..is all a trap. unless you know how to seperate emotions and pleasure and you bulit a foundation with the galdem strictly friends with benefits with no emotions itakuwa hard
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Yeah.
Its all about the person making the right choices in life,, i think so.
 
Kinya said:
So,, it all requires one to choose a perfect partner and they may live together as a couple.
If you are lucky to find a perfect partner, then one should marry..
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Remove the word perfect, replace it with mature, caring and respectful partner.
The rest you build from ground up, with the foundations of faith, care, respect and maturity.
There's one thing Muslims say, you aren't marrying for yourself only, you're searching for the mother for your kids.
What kind of person would you like to raise your kids?
That is where all their traits come from.
 
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