I find this whole parent blaming and shaming antifamily and escapist. Psychologists who look for something to blame should instead be helping their targets to unburden rather than finding comfort/solace in victimhood.Wengi wen mulienda Boarding School na mkona PTSD and other forms of Trauma zenye ata hamjui.
Others may say you are victim blaming.I find this whole parent blaming and shaming antifamily and escapist. Psychologists who look for something to blame should instead be helping their targets to unburden rather than finding comfort/solace in victimhood.
The authors are the same ones who discourage family bonds by using such negativisms as "black tax" etc where they encourage children to see kin as a burden rather than the first place to call for help when in need.
Others may say you are victim blaming.
But give this a listen/read
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Hakuna Linda Mama.But then are boarding schools the only cause of those problems? There are very many parents who reluctantly send the kids to boarding coz it is the only to free themselves to go hustle to provide for the kids. It's like the parents can't win.