A cheater will always cheat no matter the gender. Don't beat yourself up. Unfortunately we tend to seek out a particular type of partner. So the cycle is perpetuated.
As we stand right now his magic card is persecution by "despots". He swore in baba man then went on to dedicate 2books to shaming him ergo he can no longer ride on that ticket. He can't play the raiya card coz Uiliam has that niche covered. Fanyeni hisab.