Cassey Tash
Lister
Hi lovers, I hope you all have been in your best behaviours, Valentine's is coming, make one mistake in your relationship and forget about Friday 14, February 2020.
This is the most peaceful week of the year for all the lovers. If you are in a relationship you can proudly attest to this. Those petty issues you all were breaking up over is past tense now, this is also the week in which ladies will know their positions in a man's life, whether 'main or side chick.'
Messages received since morning are so polite, sweet and thoughtful, messages like 'hi please, I hope you slept well. I dreamt about you..' this and other please be my Valentine signs are on the rise, it is ok, next week we will all go back basics.
One culture that I'd like to break and do away with, is the culture of expecting men to treat ladies on Valentines and in return receive socks, vests and ties, really ladies, really? Please style up and avoid embarrassments, learn to give, receiving makes you poor says, my grandmother.
With all the memes going around about men's conference on the 14th, I hear ladies are going too and they have their speakers ready, so who'll win this year? Let's wait for November 14th. If you know, you know
If you've not scheduled and packed for the conference, here's how you can make 14th February memorable for you and your partner;
1. Breakfast in bed
Set that alarm, wake up before your partner and prepare breakfast for two. Ensure it's rich in all nutrients, you wouldn't want to be associated with a malnourished partner. Serve it well and take it your bedroom, wake your partner up and it'll be the best thing that you'll do.
Breakfast in bed is the cheapest and safest means of making your partner feel special. You can feed them, give them a bite of our share and make the moment memorable.
Ladies, you too can do that, men are resting this year. Surprise them.
2. Write love letters to each other
"You're the only fish in my lake, I'll jump and catch a grenade for you. I hope to see you tomorrow if it doesn't rain."
Write sweet love letters to each other, this rekindle the spark that the two of you have, isn't it sweet to just read a note from the person you love? Writting is also cheap if you can't afford gifts o this day, write letters. Thank me later.
3. Take a hike
You had the whole of January to plan for the 14th, so if you're a fan of hiking, this would be a great adventure for the two of you. You also get time to bond and catch up, this helps you to know each other better. Imagine spending the whole day with someone climbing mountains, and drinking water? Just imagine that.
4. Go for a drive
If you have a car, fuel it, go for a road trip to Naivasha or Nanyuki. Prepare that fire playlist. Add your partner's favourite genres too. You wouldn't want to be selfish around the person you love. Stock enough water, snacks and other essentials. Take enough photos to keep the memories for future use, and lastly follow the rules, drive safely.
5. Date night
Invite your partner for a date night, make reservations to your favourite restaurant. Dress up and keep time. It is so embarrassing to show up on a date late. Spend according to your budget and have fun.
6. Cook together
Decide on whose favourite meal you'll cook together. Shop for the ingredients together as well. While cooking, get to know each other by telling your childhood stories or just talking about random topics.
7. Send each other gifts
Identify a flower shop pick her favorite flowers, write a note and attach chocolates, send it to her office or house. Ladies, buy him a car tire if he has a car, or a pair of his favourite shoes, a new play station and any other thing he'd like.
8. Game night
Invite your friends over, buy the necessary games you'd like to play against each other. Complete healthily and you'll have the best night at a low budget .
9. Go for a movie
Book a movie that you'd like to watch, seek your partner's suggestions before book for one. If the budget is tight you can make your home a movie theater, contact your movie vender and watch it at home while cuddling and bonding.
10. Go to the gym
Take advantage of the gym date to keep fit. A couple that works out together, stays healthy together. Purchase gym wears and go for it.
TIP: Ladies, stop ignoring text messages unless you want to be lonely on 14th, Men, set aside some money for the day
All the best in your selection.
This is the most peaceful week of the year for all the lovers. If you are in a relationship you can proudly attest to this. Those petty issues you all were breaking up over is past tense now, this is also the week in which ladies will know their positions in a man's life, whether 'main or side chick.'
Messages received since morning are so polite, sweet and thoughtful, messages like 'hi please, I hope you slept well. I dreamt about you..' this and other please be my Valentine signs are on the rise, it is ok, next week we will all go back basics.
One culture that I'd like to break and do away with, is the culture of expecting men to treat ladies on Valentines and in return receive socks, vests and ties, really ladies, really? Please style up and avoid embarrassments, learn to give, receiving makes you poor says, my grandmother.
With all the memes going around about men's conference on the 14th, I hear ladies are going too and they have their speakers ready, so who'll win this year? Let's wait for November 14th. If you know, you know
If you've not scheduled and packed for the conference, here's how you can make 14th February memorable for you and your partner;
1. Breakfast in bed
Set that alarm, wake up before your partner and prepare breakfast for two. Ensure it's rich in all nutrients, you wouldn't want to be associated with a malnourished partner. Serve it well and take it your bedroom, wake your partner up and it'll be the best thing that you'll do.
Breakfast in bed is the cheapest and safest means of making your partner feel special. You can feed them, give them a bite of our share and make the moment memorable.
Ladies, you too can do that, men are resting this year. Surprise them.
2. Write love letters to each other
"You're the only fish in my lake, I'll jump and catch a grenade for you. I hope to see you tomorrow if it doesn't rain."
Write sweet love letters to each other, this rekindle the spark that the two of you have, isn't it sweet to just read a note from the person you love? Writting is also cheap if you can't afford gifts o this day, write letters. Thank me later.
3. Take a hike
You had the whole of January to plan for the 14th, so if you're a fan of hiking, this would be a great adventure for the two of you. You also get time to bond and catch up, this helps you to know each other better. Imagine spending the whole day with someone climbing mountains, and drinking water? Just imagine that.
4. Go for a drive
If you have a car, fuel it, go for a road trip to Naivasha or Nanyuki. Prepare that fire playlist. Add your partner's favourite genres too. You wouldn't want to be selfish around the person you love. Stock enough water, snacks and other essentials. Take enough photos to keep the memories for future use, and lastly follow the rules, drive safely.
5. Date night
Invite your partner for a date night, make reservations to your favourite restaurant. Dress up and keep time. It is so embarrassing to show up on a date late. Spend according to your budget and have fun.
6. Cook together
Decide on whose favourite meal you'll cook together. Shop for the ingredients together as well. While cooking, get to know each other by telling your childhood stories or just talking about random topics.
7. Send each other gifts
Identify a flower shop pick her favorite flowers, write a note and attach chocolates, send it to her office or house. Ladies, buy him a car tire if he has a car, or a pair of his favourite shoes, a new play station and any other thing he'd like.
8. Game night
Invite your friends over, buy the necessary games you'd like to play against each other. Complete healthily and you'll have the best night at a low budget .
9. Go for a movie
Book a movie that you'd like to watch, seek your partner's suggestions before book for one. If the budget is tight you can make your home a movie theater, contact your movie vender and watch it at home while cuddling and bonding.
10. Go to the gym
Take advantage of the gym date to keep fit. A couple that works out together, stays healthy together. Purchase gym wears and go for it.
TIP: Ladies, stop ignoring text messages unless you want to be lonely on 14th, Men, set aside some money for the day
All the best in your selection.
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