The 'One' that got away....

Kabuda

Elder Lister
I reckon that anyone aged 30 and above has one that got away!

They are the ones that you can never shake off even after you get married or move on.
They were so perfect in so many ways but you still broke up with them.
You missed them then, and you still miss them now.
You can't go a little while without talking to them and the feeling is mutual!...

They are your strength when your new relationship isn't working because they never judge you and you find so much comfort from just calling them and speaking to them about anything that you're going through.

So why are you not with them?

Remember Princess Diana and Camilla Parker Bowles?
Yours is that kind of relationship.

The ones that got away never leave and the worst thing is that unless Geography separates you, sexual compatibility will always cum back and bite you because you will have sex with them at every opportunity if you meet them.

The ones that got away will linger in your life forever.
They will mess up your new relationship yet console you after you get dumped!

If you don't have one that got away, try not to be the one that got away.

Every toxic relationship has a ' third wheel' .
They are the Ones that got away.
 

Duke of Busia

Elder Lister
Lucy Rita mtoto ya kinangop I like the way wee still have our imaginary relationship occasioned with kuonjeshana ata kama ni once kwa mwaka.
She got away but we still got it our way, we ate our cake and had it
 

Kabuda

Elder Lister
Physiologically, the one that got away is just the person that stimulated the most dopamine in your body. You are just a drug addict chasing a high.
Hapo umenena.
Like a drug, you know that they're not good for you but at the same time you can't say no to them.
I've had one for over twenty years and I just spoke to her five minutes ago.
I am seriously considering wifing her kama mbaya ni mbaya.
It's taken me this long to know that she is my Soul mate.
She is more than a woman.
She is my best friend.
 

Denis Young

Elder Lister
Hapo umenena.
Like a drug, you know that they're not good for you but at the same time you can't say no to them.
I've had one for over twenty years and I just spoke to her five minutes ago.
I am seriously considering wifing her kama mbaya ni mbaya.
It's taken me this long to know that she is my Soul mate.
She is more than a woman.
She is my best friend.
I can almost guarantee you will be bored of her in a few months. The whole premise of why the 'one that got away' exists is that you can never be with them. That perfect image you have of her will quickly dissolve as soon as you see the toxic side she definitely has.
I have been on that boat.
 

Abba

Elder Lister
Mmadipina my tswana candy, I have never let her go and she too has never let me go. I moved on and she did but we do talk soulmate stuffs. We always ask why we didn't be but we never have clear answers.
 
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imei2012

Elder Lister
Hapo umenena.
Like a drug, you know that they're not good for you but at the same time you can't say no to them.
I've had one for over twenty years and I just spoke to her five minutes ago.
I am seriously considering wifing her kama mbaya ni mbaya.
It's taken me this long to know that she is my Soul mate.
She is more than a woman.
She is my best friend.
Hakuna kitu kama soul mate or 'the one' just the lies we tell ourselves.... Go bust a nut utapata post nut clarity
 
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