Ken is asking for advice about a kunguru called njeri.
He met this beauty of a girl while she was still in class eight. She would come chill at his place watching movies then he would escort her home. Nothing used to happen. he was 20 then.
Same thing happened when she was in high school. They were so close. Her family knew him well and they were comfortable with his company around her. He eventually thought he would marry her. Sex was clearly out of the picture coz he truly oved her.
She passed her KCSE well, she was bright. She took up Education at the University of Moi Eldoret.
By this time he was in and out of the country for work.
At one time he went to visit her at the campus (main) and she told him she had aborted someone's kid but he was still fine with it.
he loved her.
After university she got work and he would visit and support all her undertakings including paying helb. By this time their parents knew them well.
At one time her sister told him there's someone ramnyaring this chile but he brushed it off. His primary goal was to marry her and settle her at a place they won't meet with the dude. Get kids and move on with life.
The shocker of the life time came when she called him and announced that she got 411 she would like to share hoping he won't be mad. She was paged !!!!
he remembers falling apart at that very moment.
Tears and sorrow would follow from there henceforth.
He was broken . His first time to go through depression. He started smoking ,not less than 5 packets a day. Alcohol became his partner in all he did.
Her family tried talking coz apparently baby daddy eloped. He could hear non of that whatsoever.
Later on out of compassion, after all the baby is always innocent. He took them in. He didn't know satan was also a companion in this relationship. When he was out of the country working, as informed by neighbors, baby daddy would still come and chew. He sent her and her little man (kid) packing.
She got married by baby daddy but as wind had it they used to fight and argue nonstop, for a period of two years.
She called him this year on Feb informing of their separation on Dec last. She says she's now ready to settle.
He's still single.
He had moved on with life practically though.
He still loves her, or maybe it's what they had. Or maybe some day he will come back to Kenya and settle, find somebody whom he will love best. He doesn't know.
Tell him folks, what part of life crisis is this?
What would you do?
He met this beauty of a girl while she was still in class eight. She would come chill at his place watching movies then he would escort her home. Nothing used to happen. he was 20 then.
Same thing happened when she was in high school. They were so close. Her family knew him well and they were comfortable with his company around her. He eventually thought he would marry her. Sex was clearly out of the picture coz he truly oved her.
She passed her KCSE well, she was bright. She took up Education at the University of Moi Eldoret.
By this time he was in and out of the country for work.
At one time he went to visit her at the campus (main) and she told him she had aborted someone's kid but he was still fine with it.
he loved her.
After university she got work and he would visit and support all her undertakings including paying helb. By this time their parents knew them well.
At one time her sister told him there's someone ramnyaring this chile but he brushed it off. His primary goal was to marry her and settle her at a place they won't meet with the dude. Get kids and move on with life.
The shocker of the life time came when she called him and announced that she got 411 she would like to share hoping he won't be mad. She was paged !!!!
he remembers falling apart at that very moment.
Tears and sorrow would follow from there henceforth.
He was broken . His first time to go through depression. He started smoking ,not less than 5 packets a day. Alcohol became his partner in all he did.
Her family tried talking coz apparently baby daddy eloped. He could hear non of that whatsoever.
Later on out of compassion, after all the baby is always innocent. He took them in. He didn't know satan was also a companion in this relationship. When he was out of the country working, as informed by neighbors, baby daddy would still come and chew. He sent her and her little man (kid) packing.
She got married by baby daddy but as wind had it they used to fight and argue nonstop, for a period of two years.
She called him this year on Feb informing of their separation on Dec last. She says she's now ready to settle.
He's still single.
He had moved on with life practically though.
He still loves her, or maybe it's what they had. Or maybe some day he will come back to Kenya and settle, find somebody whom he will love best. He doesn't know.
Tell him folks, what part of life crisis is this?
What would you do?
Life is so easy but some like it rough and tough