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Elder Lister
First off, I would like to apologize for the embellished title. I have always wanted to use these words without justification, and this seems like the only forum that will allow me to do so. In any other setting, I would be expected to back it up with a 100-page manuscript and tons of data, something I’m not capable of even with a gun on my head. For all civilians, the title should roughly translate to ‘How Men and Women understand Cheating’. Please note, I’m not in any way trying to propagate the red pill gospel; I’m just trying to help men and women view the battle through the eyes of their opponents.
Let us begin. The first fact I would like to convey is that there are different types of infidelities in the relationship set-up. These include physical, emotional, romantic, commemorative, and opportunistic infidelity. I will leave the details to Google. For now, I will focus on physical and emotional infidelity, the two culprits responsible for the chaos we continue to witness in relationships. Physical infidelity, as the name suggests, involves sexual involvement with a party outside a relationship. On the other hand, emotional infidelity happens when an individual develops emotional intimacy with a party other than their partner. More often than not, it is a precursor to sexual relations at some future date.
Men and women weigh infidelities differently. For a man, sexual infidelity by the woman is a sure deal breaker. Sadly, a cheating woman does not perceive her actions as earth-shattering or dangerous to her well being. That explains why some women will be caught cheating in a very casual manner, which leaves most people wondering why the cheating woman could not have taken better precautions. Many onlookers will incessantly wonder why a woman would risk her family and everything by cheating carelessly. What most people fail to understand is that to a woman, the female anatomy is simply a tool to power and pleasure. Nothing more. In her mind, the act of cheating does not qualify as a serious transgression as long as she remains emotionally committed to her partner. It is not unusual to find a woman who will sleep with everyone in their workplace while still maintaining their partner at home.
Turning to the other side of the coin, a woman will be more worried about her husband’s emotional infidelity than his sexual escapades. For instance, a woman will know and keep silent about the husband’s escapades with hookers, but go ballistic when the same man starts to show a tender side to a house girl or any other female. In other words, what threatens a woman is the man becoming emotionally attached to another female rather than having sexual relations. I could give more examples to support this claim. For instance, complimenting the attire of a female newscaster on TV in front of madam can the beginning of a protracted war. This despite the fact that you stand no chances of meeting the newscaster ever. To your madam, doing so equated to emotional betrayal, which is a fatal mistake according to her. This might also explain polygamy. Polygamous men make each woman believe she is the exclusive recipient of love while the other one is just a hanger-on. Each woman does not mind that the husband is sleeping with someone else for as long as he keeps declaring affection to each.
What are the lessons that you should take home from this brief discourse? For women, you need to understand that sexual infidelity has no remedy once caught. Therefore, you should take super-extra precautions not to be caught. For men, you should never be caught exhibiting tenderness to a female. If you know you have something going for a female known to your woman, pretend to be hostile to that female and you will be safe. Similarly, if ever caught with a side dish, just make it known to your woman that you don’t love the side dish. This way, your case will be downgraded from aggravated murder to involuntary manslaughter.
Let us begin. The first fact I would like to convey is that there are different types of infidelities in the relationship set-up. These include physical, emotional, romantic, commemorative, and opportunistic infidelity. I will leave the details to Google. For now, I will focus on physical and emotional infidelity, the two culprits responsible for the chaos we continue to witness in relationships. Physical infidelity, as the name suggests, involves sexual involvement with a party outside a relationship. On the other hand, emotional infidelity happens when an individual develops emotional intimacy with a party other than their partner. More often than not, it is a precursor to sexual relations at some future date.
Men and women weigh infidelities differently. For a man, sexual infidelity by the woman is a sure deal breaker. Sadly, a cheating woman does not perceive her actions as earth-shattering or dangerous to her well being. That explains why some women will be caught cheating in a very casual manner, which leaves most people wondering why the cheating woman could not have taken better precautions. Many onlookers will incessantly wonder why a woman would risk her family and everything by cheating carelessly. What most people fail to understand is that to a woman, the female anatomy is simply a tool to power and pleasure. Nothing more. In her mind, the act of cheating does not qualify as a serious transgression as long as she remains emotionally committed to her partner. It is not unusual to find a woman who will sleep with everyone in their workplace while still maintaining their partner at home.
Turning to the other side of the coin, a woman will be more worried about her husband’s emotional infidelity than his sexual escapades. For instance, a woman will know and keep silent about the husband’s escapades with hookers, but go ballistic when the same man starts to show a tender side to a house girl or any other female. In other words, what threatens a woman is the man becoming emotionally attached to another female rather than having sexual relations. I could give more examples to support this claim. For instance, complimenting the attire of a female newscaster on TV in front of madam can the beginning of a protracted war. This despite the fact that you stand no chances of meeting the newscaster ever. To your madam, doing so equated to emotional betrayal, which is a fatal mistake according to her. This might also explain polygamy. Polygamous men make each woman believe she is the exclusive recipient of love while the other one is just a hanger-on. Each woman does not mind that the husband is sleeping with someone else for as long as he keeps declaring affection to each.
What are the lessons that you should take home from this brief discourse? For women, you need to understand that sexual infidelity has no remedy once caught. Therefore, you should take super-extra precautions not to be caught. For men, you should never be caught exhibiting tenderness to a female. If you know you have something going for a female known to your woman, pretend to be hostile to that female and you will be safe. Similarly, if ever caught with a side dish, just make it known to your woman that you don’t love the side dish. This way, your case will be downgraded from aggravated murder to involuntary manslaughter.
