Need advice for a friend...

wrongturn

Elder Lister
My friend's wife jst left him without notice, friend needs assistance...
Pole boss, it's life most important thing is acceptance. Keep yourself busy with work or travelling around. Restrict yourself from contacting her even for days ,let her be. Focus on yourself, avoid pombe to drown sorrows or lanyes . Give it a week then reach out to her either through parents or close friends, if she doesn't respond ,move on
 

Swansea

Elder Lister
Pole boss, it's life most important thing is acceptance. Keep yourself busy with work or travelling around. Restrict yourself from contacting her even for days ,let her be. Focus on yourself, avoid pombe to drown sorrows or lanyes . Give it a week then reach out to her either through parents or close friends, if she doesn't respond ,move on
Beg to differ kidogo. Once a woman walks out, let her be gone.

Women just don't up and leave. She probably already talked it over with her closest friends, maybe even her family (esp. her mother) over a period of time. To rationalize her decision (by demonizing him and magnifying his negatives) to leave, assuage her guilt and emotionally detach. This happened a long time before she actually left physically.

I can guarantee there is and was a ninja already tapping her. That's how men are always caught flat footed. 😁
 

Trojan

New Lister
Pole boss, it's life most important thing is acceptance. Keep yourself busy with work or travelling around. Restrict yourself from contacting her even for days ,let her be. Focus on yourself, avoid pombe to drown sorrows or lanyes . Give it a week then reach out to her either through parents or close friends, if she doesn't respond ,move on
Thank u,
 
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