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Kasaman

Elder Lister
If you ae married to a good man, thank God for him. If you have a regular man or community husband, stash something aside for yourself. Incase he leaves you someday, ama ukichoka na ujinga zake umwache, you'll be able to move on bila bitterness. If you stay, take good care of yourself, acha kutembea around like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, get counselling, join investment groups, jijenge. Have even a grocery shop, so you can be self reliant incase of any outcome.
Being married doesn't mean you neglect yourself and do donkey work. Those were expectations for our forefathers and mothers. Ask the slayqueens and MWKs if they do any chores to impress those men? Yet they make more money out of your man than you do!
Hii mambo ya kufua nguo, mikono inakuwa sand paper tupunguze. If you can afford a washing machine, nunua, if not its okay to employ someone to do the heavy chores. Make your nails and look good.
Kuvaa t-shirt to bed hope tulikoma, pitia lingerie world, they have stuff in all sizes. Let your body parts breathe. Take a bath with nice scented bath gel, na ujipake mafuta nzuri na cologne, do it for you, coz you deserve to pamper yourself everyday. Ati unaoga na bar soap for who? why?
Masuruali mothers union mchome, wear nice seamless underwear, and other good quality undergarments, kama kifua ni kama yangu, tafuta padded bra...nunua nguo nzuri, wether mtumba or new. Wacha kuvaa nguo zako za tangu 2012 hadi waleo in the name of saving money.
Huezi chunga mwanaume, but spend that money mama. Wekea yeye projects na timelines za kucomplete, juu if he has money he aint spending on you, he's in the club with the boys and some random women drinking and pissing it off. Halafu umekaa nyumbani unakula sukuma juu hutaki kuwaste pesa za familia!
Take a culinary class, make exotic meals at home, get that huge six burner cooker with oven, bake your pizzas, and eat them. Just do good stuff for yourself.
If you went ocha last holiday, next time take a nice holiday within your means and create memories, this life is too short to spend holidays wrangling with inlaws.
Ifhe takes you out, dont accept to be taken mabatini, karomaindo, base ya muguka... youre better off going to a nice desent club or restaurant once a month than kibandaski everyday. Fika kempiski ukiweza, order something from the top shelf. Kama hakupeleki, jipeleke, raha jipe mwenyewe. Call up your girls and have a good time....
Whaetever makes you happy, just live life, tutakufa sote in the end. I'd like to celebrate you when you are ded of natural causes, not stress or STDs or kuuliwa. Choose you!
Wa kutupa mawe, please tupa kubwa kubwa, najenga nyumba ya rentals niitwe landlady
@Nefertities when is the next all girls road trip?
It's cold out there !
 

bigDog

Elder Lister
If you ae married to a good man, thank God for him. If you have a regular man or community husband, stash something aside for yourself. Incase he leaves you someday, ama ukichoka na ujinga zake umwache, you'll be able to move on bila bitterness. If you stay, take good care of yourself, acha kutembea around like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, get counselling, join investment groups, jijenge. Have even a grocery shop, so you can be self reliant incase of any outcome.
Being married doesn't mean you neglect yourself and do donkey work. Those were expectations for our forefathers and mothers. Ask the slayqueens and MWKs if they do any chores to impress those men? Yet they make more money out of your man than you do!
Hii mambo ya kufua nguo, mikono inakuwa sand paper tupunguze. If you can afford a washing machine, nunua, if not its okay to employ someone to do the heavy chores. Make your nails and look good.
Kuvaa t-shirt to bed hope tulikoma, pitia lingerie world, they have stuff in all sizes. Let your body parts breathe. Take a bath with nice scented bath gel, na ujipake mafuta nzuri na cologne, do it for you, coz you deserve to pamper yourself everyday. Ati unaoga na bar soap for who? why?
Masuruali mothers union mchome, wear nice seamless underwear, and other good quality undergarments, kama kifua ni kama yangu, tafuta padded bra...nunua nguo nzuri, wether mtumba or new. Wacha kuvaa nguo zako za tangu 2012 hadi waleo in the name of saving money.
Huezi chunga mwanaume, but spend that money mama. Wekea yeye projects na timelines za kucomplete, juu if he has money he aint spending on you, he's in the club with the boys and some random women drinking and pissing it off. Halafu umekaa nyumbani unakula sukuma juu hutaki kuwaste pesa za familia!
Take a culinary class, make exotic meals at home, get that huge six burner cooker with oven, bake your pizzas, and eat them. Just do good stuff for yourself.
If you went ocha last holiday, next time take a nice holiday within your means and create memories, this life is too short to spend holidays wrangling with inlaws.
Ifhe takes you out, dont accept to be taken mabatini, karomaindo, base ya muguka... youre better off going to a nice desent club or restaurant once a month than kibandaski everyday. Fika kempiski ukiweza, order something from the top shelf. Kama hakupeleki, jipeleke, raha jipe mwenyewe. Call up your girls and have a good time....
Whaetever makes you happy, just live life, tutakufa sote in the end. I'd like to celebrate you when you are ded of natural causes, not stress or STDs or kuuliwa. Choose you!
Wa kutupa mawe, please tupa kubwa kubwa, najenga nyumba ya rentals niitwe landlady
@Nefertities when is the next all girls road trip?
i probably know a few things you described above. I will be honest with you. I do have done hanya hanya. May be even a MYK here or there.

Lakini I'm going to be there for that lady and my kids. When she calls me at midnight, I'm going to answer.

What do you expect when your husband is away?
 
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