CMV: Marriage is Just Legalized Monogamous Prostitution

[Gus]

The only way marriages remain stable is if the female benefits more financially from associating with the man than she would on her own.

If the man loses his job, the probability of divorce increases significantly. The same effect is seen if the wife out-earns the man.

Basically, the ideal lifelong marriage is one where the man out-earns the woman significantly for most of his life. That seems like prostitution to me.

If a woman sees no financial advantage of remaining married compared to how she would live alone, she leaves. Change my view.

 

[Uzo]

Depends on the woman's age. Women -- especially younger women -- respond to vagina tingles more than anything. It's because their primary function is to act as "genetic filters." They determine which male's genes are the fittest and therefore worthy of propagation. During a woman's physical prime, she prioritizes a partner's physical attractiveness and social charisma more than anything. She'd readily put up with anything for the privilege of siring genetic masterpieces. She will tolerate and forgive an attractive husband's worst faults.

Upon reaching the age of 35, a woman's ability to bear children significantly reduces. This is the age where she prioritizes provisioning more than anything. Definitely far more than genetics. At this age she doesn't care if a man is good-looking, because she's got nothing to benefit from his good-looks. At this point a woman will readily dump a poor but good-looking husband. Because briffault's law. When a woman has nothing to gain from an association with a man, no association will take place.

Ultimately, it all comes down to the woman's age. A woman's preferences change with age. A young wife will tolerate a broke but charming husband. An older woman will not. What an older woman prioritizes above all else is provisioning. She's not interested in sex because she's got nothing to gain from sex. She's past her fertility and cannot sire kids anymore. What remains is to provide for those kids. And this is where a rich guy comes in handy.

 

[Gus]

An older woman will not. What an older woman prioritizes above all else is provisioning. She's not interested in sex because she's got nothing to gain from sex. She's past her fertility and cannot sire kids anymore. What remains is to provide for those kids. And this is where a rich guy comes in handy.

A rich man has the desire and means to get the younger women. So, what older women want is unattainable to them. No rich man is bending over backwards for a 35 year old with brats in tow. Hence, the single parent crisis in KE currently.

Generally, those rich guys don't commit to single mothers. So, very few women can pull off what you just stated i.e. sire kids with a genetically superior man in their 20s and then get a rich simp in their 30s for provisioning. This plan usually backfires 9 out of 10 times. Normally they end up settling for an average simp who will take them with their baggage.

I'm sure any woman, including those young and childless ones, will tell you that the hardest part of their game is locking down (not fucking) a rich nigga. Most women have fucked a rich nigga in their lives. Very few get wived.

It is true that most women attempt to double-dip (procreate with an alpha and get a rich simp to raise the kids) but that strategy often backfires in their faces and they end up procreating with an alpha and settling with a working class simp.

 

[Kasaman]

A rich man has the desire and means to get the younger women. So, what older women want is unattainable to them. No rich man is bending over backwards for a 35 year old with brats in tow. Hence, the single parent crisis in KE currently.

Generally, those rich guys don't commit to single mothers. So, very few women can pull off what you just stated i.e. sire kids with a genetically superior man in their 20s and then get a rich simp in their 30s for provisioning. This plan usually backfires 9 out of 10 times. Normally they end up settling for an average simp who will take them with their baggage.

I'm sure any woman, including those young and childless ones, will tell you that the hardest part of their game is locking down (not fucking) a rich nigga. Most women have fucked a rich nigga in their lives. Very few get wived.

It is true that most women attempt to double-dip (procreate with an alpha and get a rich simp to raise the kids) but that strategy often backfires in their faces and they end up procreating with an alpha and settling with a working class simp.

We don't have instructional manual for marriage , yours can't be a reference for any couple , age is never a factor of consideration

 

[Electronics2U]

We don't have instructional manual for marriage , yours can't be a reference for any couple , age is never a factor of consideration

Respect these theories because in reality they work

 

[Uzo]

It is true that most women attempt to double-dip (procreate with an alpha and get a rich simp to raise the kids) but that strategy often backfires in their faces and they end up procreating with an alpha and settling with a working class simp.

Double-dipping = fucking alphas in their prime.

A closer analysis infact reveals that women shack up (live) temporarily with these "alphas" during their prime. Which in essence is a form of marriage, just without the formal ceremonies and paper signing.

And yet, the college girl who cohabits with her campus boyfriend cares little for money. She is still under her parent's care and can get by with little. She enjoys the sex and the validation that comes with being the guy's boyfriend. Women rarely do anything without the approval of the female pack.

It is only after she hits her mid-twenties that she'll start looking for a "mature" guy, which normally means a financially stable guy she can tolerate being around.

 

[Wakatimba]

@Introvert aliniambia kwa marriage hakuna kuiitisha doggy style ama hata slanted doggy. For that reason sioi

 

[Gus]

Double-dipping = fucking alphas in their prime.

A closer analysis infact reveals that women shack up (live) temporarily with these "alphas" during their prime. Which in essence is a form of marriage, just without the formal ceremonies and paper signing.

And yet, the college girl who cohabits with her campus boyfriend cares little for money. She is still under her parent's care and can get by with little. She enjoys the sex and the validation that comes with being the guy's boyfriend. Women rarely do anything without the approval of the female pack.

It is only after she hits her mid-twenties that she'll start looking for a "mature" guy, which normally means a financially stable guy she can tolerate being around.

You missed the point. When a young girl settles with her campus boyfriend, she gets pregnant with a kid or two. Then it hits her that the campus guy is broke and can't provide her with the lifestyle she wants. At that time, she makes the biggest error that most women make. Most women mistake being desired for sex, for being desired for a relationship. So, at say 25, she is still being hit on by wealthy guys in their 30s and 40s. Those guys are only interested in fucking, but she thinks she can lock them down. So she gets fucked and dumped repeatedly for 5-10 years. In her thirties, she realizes that wealthy men are extremely elusive (for marriage), so she has no choice but to settle for an average simp who will accept her and her kids. Most single mothers end up getting married by average or below average men after being pumped and dumped repeatedly by the high tier guys.

 

[Deborah09]

Usually, a woman will have a kid or two in her 20s. Then she will try to lock down a wealthy man after 27. Only the few extremely hot ones can pull it off. Most will just get pumped and dumped repeatedly by the men they want. Eventually, by 33, they will have given up and settle for the working class simp.

Badala ya kuandika hii yote ungesema unapenda Kula wanaume.

 

[Uzo]

When a young girl settles with her campus boyfriend, she gets pregnant with a kid or two. Then it hits her that the campus guy is broke and can't provide her with the lifestyle she wants.

Exactly. Subconsciously she knows. All along she knew the dude was a broke ghaseer but when it comes to young fertile women, sexual desire supercedes logic. It clouds their judgement and prevents them for rationally assessing the true nature of things.

This is a game played by nature. A young fertile girl will forgive everything in a man she finds sexually attractive. She'll overlook his sorry financial position. Nature deliberately designed it this way.

Only after a certain age (mid to late twenties) will it dawn on a woman that her preference in men is not sustainable and she will need to recalibrate it if she wants her offsprings to survive. Hence the change of criteria in mate selection.

Even a childless 38-year-old woman will prioritize financial muscles in a potential mate. This, naturally, is because at that age she's supposed to have been knocked up several times. She's supposed to have several children, some of whom require male provisioning. Hence the resultant change in mate preference.

An 18-year-old chic doesn't really care much for a man's money. At least not as much as she prioritizes a guy's looks and charisma.

 

[Cortedivoire]

Purpose ya marriage ni kuraise kids. In between kula lanye

 

[Electronics2U]

Purpose ya marriage ni kuraise kids. In between kula lanye

Not everyone is reckless enough to engage in risky sexual escapades with cum dumpsters